A Reluctant Date

Relationships

A Bad Circle of Friends

When dating a person progresses into a relationship, it is time to bring them into a circle of family or friends. They might be thrilled to be included in family gatherings or special nights with friends, but a person who has a bad circle of friends might find it is affecting their potential relationships. Dating is about being able to fit into the lives of each other. If a circle of friends is not quite what the other person likes, it could cause bad feelings all around.

When falling in love, it is common for people to ignore their friends for a short time. They often wander back into their lives when it is time to introduce the new love of their life, and that is when the trouble can begin. Many people have had the same friends for decades by the time they are dating, and they might feel they need to make a choice. If the person they are seeing asks them to choose, they will definitely choose their friends.

Being in a relationship long enough for it to solidify often means choosing time with a partner over time with friends, and it is there that a partner will begin to separate out friends they believe are less than savory. If they have stayed around long enough to do it, the relationship has a fairly good chance to be a long one. Rushing into a permanent commitment would be bad for this type of couple because one could lose their friends before finding out the relationship is only temporary.

It is fairly normal for people to cut down on their circle of friends as they become involved in a relationship, but they should never give them up permanently. Their partner might do their best to avoid social occasions with them, but learning how to integrate them all into their circle is really show true commitment.